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by paparatti

Question by Hannah:

how can I stop being emotionally attached to the person I lost my virginity to..?/:?

Before you guys all judge me, i'll straight up say that i'm only 15. I lost my virginity in November, 2010 to a guy in my school. He's a senior/i'm a freshman, and it obviously can't work out the way i want it to. I've had a crush on him for so long, and when he asked me to come over and hang out, i thought i needed to have sex with him in order for him to like me. So when he asked, i was kungho. I know now that it was so dumb, so i don't need all of you telling me something i already know myself. The problem is, he used me so bad; as most guys usually do. I just regret everything so much and i wish I waited for someone that actually cared about me and made it special.. also, It's the fact that i'm so emotionally attached to him now. He's all i think about and i always wonder why he doesn't love me and why he used me, ect. Obviously..girls are very dumb. I'm naive for feeling this way, and my age clearly shows that/: I just need help and i need to forgive myself. I can't get my mind off of him, and even though he's screwed me over countless times..i would give anything to be with him.

Alot of people told me it's more than normal to be emotionally attached to the first person you shared that with.. but i dunno D: What do you guys think? Helppp. Am i emotionally attached or should i feel the way i do? How can i get my mind of off him /:




Best answer:

Answer by S J S
First off, not all guys are like this. Second, I don't believe girls are dumb. Some more than others but how can you stereotype yourself (and every other girl reading this) like that?

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